Aškerčevi asi 2026

Inauthentic people It doesn’t matter whether they’re two - faced or conformed to society; they are unpleasant to be around. Bossiness I hate being told what to do. I hate following a set schedule; it’s incredibly tiring and impossible to stick to. I’m more spontaneous. Being misperceived: Especially by those I place some degree of trust in. I can be blunt and rude sometimes, and while I’m a pessimist, I don’t think it’s funny or quirky if a friend calls me a mean b….and I don’t care that it’s said in a joking manner. Some people take my armour and simplify it to suit them and their narrative. It feels that to be considered well - mannered, kind, and competent, you have to be a people-pleaser. People who use others for money, resources, status, and validation. People pleasers T he ones who know they’re being used by the former, but they crave so badly to be useful that they let it happen. Nejra, 4a What makes me nervous Having to do what I don’t excel in: I’m a perfectionist, and it’s humiliating. I convinced myself a long time ago that I had to be perfect at everything. So when I’m not, I stop doing it to save myself the embarrassment. Doing something I find interesting and not being perfect at it: T he same as the previous one, but here my pride is the leader of it all. It’s more subjective and therefore worse. Being the centre of attention, especially when I’m not fully present: I’m awkward and hate resenting. It makes me nervous because I fear saying or doing something wrong.

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